'Me' v 'us'

Relationships and love is complicated
Many times we try to understand others before understanding ourselves
We try to define the 'us' before 'me'
I may be in love with someone
But does that necessarily mean that the person is right for me?
They say love is blind
maybe it is
But then again in daylight and when standing on firm ground love is not blind
I may like someone but that doesn't mean he is the person for me